In A Room Full Of Death Ears Part 2

On the ships that shipped US
Something else was shipped
That was
Dismantled, delayed ,almost destroyed  and
dismissed
The voice of ancestry
Slips the though bloodlines
Regards less of current predicaments
The clamor of disagreeable sounds
Mute out the natural collectivist

So the  barrels
Of our Barriers got us acting
Like crabs
Stabbing each other's skin
Clamoring to drink the poison of industrialized
Sins
As the laughing hyenas of the 1 percent
Innovate ways to diminish
The humanistic qualities
Of beings
Deemed inferior
Because the gleam of the sun
Off our skin
Is brighter
Than the glint
At the tip of their guns

The
Measly samples of prosperity
Drapes our necks,stitched to purses and cover our feet
When math ,reading ,and critical thinking proficiency
Are below C level
Destined to be shipwrecked
while navigating
Through Barometric standards of which we are measured

Who begs for acceptance
One addicted to the crack Cocaine smolder
Of the war on us
Wishing on the napalm agent orange colored
Rainbow
Smoking deoxygenated air
Their lungs spit the Agenda
Stimulating deafness
That defies
The death sentence
To the pandemonium

In the land promised to no one
The man child .....
Who can bear children
Is either a biological weapon
to manufacture  toys soldiers

A drone
Castrated by the middle aged Dementia
Of the physically unable to perform
Stock holder

Or A target practiced
upon by  the Un-policed
Imagination of boy soldiers

Nostalgia has a strangle hold on the the ego of the supremacist
Who list false prophecies of our identities
And predestined our fate
Though acts of war domestic and abroad

Them
Reduced to the lowest common denominator
The word was written on the side of those ships
The boy can be broken
But the man who speaks for himself
With the woman at his side
Cannot never be an N word

Before the oak tree
Was cut down
No one heard it scream
The handle is one of us

So hollow olive branches
Are handed out when
When we are cut down

We are broad strokes
Drawn in the womb
Of our mothers
With the ink of our fathers
Written in the structure of the space time continuum

The surgical addiction
Dictates
The next
Cosmetic procedure that copies
Our physical features
Yet
Would erase our  influence

We scream no justice no peace
Our howls  are lullabies
our shouts put them to sleep
And the blood that's on their hands
Decorates the walls of their
Dreams


We celebrated the removal of hoods
Forgetting they move among us
Judging,lawyering,administrating doses,
managing water supplies,
Patrolling,teaching,pointing , anointing deputies
While they still burn their cross

At our deaths
We Howell
We clamor
We post
We exclaim
We react
We internalize
We lash out
We lash within
We survive
We die
We yell
We cry
We have fought for
We have integrated
We have even begged


But the room that
We're doing this in
Is guarded deaf ears….............


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Interpersonal Communication Etiquette At Work: How To Navigate The Work Scene

Sometimes there are just certain things you don't bring with you to work. Just off the top of my head I think its safe to say smelly fish lunches, pink eye or any other contagious sickness, yesterday's unwashed work outfit, and a list of other things can stay out the work place, for everyone's sake.

When it comes to communication, there is definitely a strategy to moving in a room full of vultures, (not all co-workers are vultures...but yeah...some are).

We all have at some point, or will in the future, sit through those “volun-told” corporate trainings on equal opportunity, sexual harassment, and discriminatory actions in the work place. Although it is great information provided, most of you fall asleep or zone out during the PowerPoint sleep aide- I may or may not have nodded off a time or two before. What's being missed is evident, and that's the do's and don't's of the workplace. Since you missed it there, lets recap, shall we.

Most of us spend more time with our co-workers than we do with our actual family, and it's only natural to communicate with our professional colleagues on a personal level as well as professional. This is where you get to work as a strategist and begin with audience analysis. You have to know who you are talking to and what is appropriate to discuss with different people. Audience analysis allows you to tailor your communication content to the right party as to not accidentally offend someone by something that you may consider harmless. This is especially important when telling jokes in the work place.

Another rule of thumb, don't tell it all. Everything isn't for everyone. If you feel the need to vent about relationship problems, in depth medical situations of the very private kind, or long, drawn out stories about the 39 sounds your cat fluffy makes, save it for your BFF, or your therapist- who ever picks up first. It's cool to make real connections and friendships at work, and very common, but save the deep stuff for happy hour when your off the clock.

Politics and religion is the thinnest ice you can ever walk on. Wars have been fought over the two since before it could even be defined. Everyone has different viewpoints, and that's what makes the world a great and diverse place, but contrasting ideas can lead to offense, which can lead to arguments, which leads to limited productivity in the workplace. Limited productivity usually means it's time to start letting some people go. This is where we circle back to audience analysis, and getting to know who you are talking to before you make a possibly offensive comment. Current events in the news, especially those circling around race tension, can cause similar divide, especially in a work place with a diverse staff. These conversations need not be avoided like the plague, rather engaged in a different setting.

When in doubt of what to say and who to say it to, you can always stick to the safe conversations- family, hobbies, food, sports, and Game of Thrones! Just kidding about GoT, but really, a popular TV show is always clutch. These topics allow you to talk about things that are a little deeper than surface level and are strong bonds between a multitude of backgrounds.

You have to work with them, see them on a regular basis, and communicate with them regularly, so why not try to make it as comfortable as possible? Learn how to move in the office scene when communication is involved, and watch your workplace dynamic change for the better.

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Be the expert!

Be the expert, never stop perfecting your craft. It doesn’t matter what it is you do, there is always more knowledge out there to gain, a different perspective to see, and another approach to go by. Focus in on what you are most passionate about, or five things you are most passionate about, and one by one, tackle them all!

Everyone has it in them to absorb more knowledge, and let’s face it, in today’s technologically driven society, access to that knowledge is easier and easier. A mentor of mine, Alvin Phillips, my former Army commander, always would tell me “you don’t know what you don’t know”. He was articulating that a person can perceive to make a change without grasping some knowledge, but knowledge is like space, never ending, so you can’t have enough.

I am a well-seasoned communicator with a lot of experience, but somewhere in the world there are people who know what I already know, and who can teach me a thing or two. The same goes for those people who know more than I do, there are people who can teach them a thing or two. You don’t know what you don’t know. There is always room for growth.

Communication evolves as we do, and reaching towards the stars in an attempt to perfect your craft will only make you better, more relevant, more reliable, and leave you reaching a place somewhere in the sky. The tools are there, and google is our friend. When used properly to search and fact check our findings, we can access a world of helpful literature, websites (this website), lectures, TED talks, forums, and workshops.

Seek out a mentor in your given field, and learn from them. I cannot stress that enough. We learn best from each other, and what else is the meaning of life but to live, love, laugh and learn. If you find something to be worthwhile, then by all means learn from an expert and in turn become the subject matter expert.

Communication just happens to be my bag, but it can be fashion, fitness, design, or music for you, for anyone. The road begins by placing one foot in front of the other, and before you know it you’ll find yourself at the end of the beaten path where fresh grass grows and a sign under a willow tree reads “you have arrived”.

Step one is simple- determine what it is you are passionate about and want to pursue.

Step two is just as simple- research your subject and find a mentor who can help guide you along the way.

Step three- immerse yourself in that world, absorb knowledge related to that passion anywhere you can find it, and be active in looking.

Step four- back your formal knowledge up with practical knowledge. Add experience and perspective by applying your technique in the field or amongst others.

Step five- once you’ve learned all you think you need to know, look for ways to improve on what you know.

Step six- repeat steps 1 through 5.

Only then will you be a subject matter expert, and by result, a reliable source to communicate your knowledge to the next party.

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6 Steps to Conquering Public Speaking…..Like A Boss!

Communication comes in many forms, and what I will discuss with you now is the art of Public Speaking, and believe me, there is an art to effective public speaking.

Public speaking is ranked as the number 1 fear amongst people according to studies, followed by death. No, seriously! People rather die than speak in front of people. 

Successful public speaking, whether its in a board room, in front of a class, or at a church, or a funeral where apparently you'd rather be in the casket than giving the eulogy, can be achieved by following six key tips.

1. Your entrance into your speaking position. Walk in calmly, and find a comfortable area in front of your audience and get into a firm stance, standing upright with no hunching. While the pressure to begin speaking might take over with all eyes on you, don’t!…Take a moment to scan your audience, take a deep breath and calm your nerves. This initial pause will show your audience right off the bat, that you are in charge.

2. Use your voice to fill the room so that you are sure the person in the back row can hear you clearly, talking from your diaphragm. The goal is to speak louder than you think you should actually be speaking. You wont’ be screaming, but your voice will carry.

3. Speak slow!……...Use pauses filled with nothing but silence. This helps in two ways. When we get nervous while speaking, we tend to increase the rate at which we speak, so you rush through your sentences and the words get jumbled up……Use the silent pauses to collect your thoughts. The silent pauses also help to navigate you away from filler words like “um”, “like” and the “you knows”. We are very patient creatures when it comes to focusing on a speaker, and will wait for you to deliver your message. The majority of the audience is probably encouraging you to do good and are receptive to your message. They will wait for you.

4. Body language. You guys ever heard of Ricky Bobby? I don’t know what to do with my hands. Don’t let your hands become a distraction. Keep them centered, and around the area of your belly button, and use them to gesture minimally, not straying from an invisible box you create, no wider than your stance. Also, don’t forget to smile! Smiling creates a warming affect with your audience. Think about a conversation you’ve had with someone over the phone. You can hear it in their voice as they speak, that they are smiling. Smiling changes your tone and makes your voice more pleasant to listen to.

5. Eye contact. We talked about scanning the audience as you enter, but while you are speaking you want to make eye contact with individual members in the audience. Just a few will do, and ensure that you hold your gaze with them as you speak. This creates a very engaging atmosphere with you and the audience, as if you are speaking one on one with everyone in the room. Even those you don’t make contact with can feel the connection through the contact you make with others. Scan the audience for those who are visually encouraging you with their gestures and feed off of them for continued encouragement through eye contact.

6. The audience is listening, waiting on your every word for a reason. They want to receive something. They want value from what you are delivering. Avoid the salesperson dialogue of trying to force something on them, rather give something they might want or need-your information. They have given you their time, now give them something worthwhile in return.

Follow these six steps and you will conquer any public speaking engagement……like a Boss!


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